Question: I can get an erection, but its not what it used to be even a year ago. The erection does not last long at all, and I go "soft" while im still inside my partner sometimes if sex lasts longer then 5minutes. I also noticed that I cannot last long at all anymore, maybe 10 minutes max and ive achived an orgasm. I was wondering if there was anything I could do to help this issue, its becoming a problem for both my wife and I.